I arrived early graduation day to find out that Tyler, my most shy student, had been crying since she arrived at school that day. So I immediately went to class to help improve everyone's spirits. Tyler and I sat in another room, chatting and hanging out for awhile to try and calm her nerves. She was so incredibly nervous about going on stage in front of so many people as all of the Moms of all of the students would be there (as well as some grandparents and a few dads).
Tyler very upset as the other students try to encourage her
Unlike the previous song contests we have done, where we get to view everything. We did not get to see the entire graduation. We stayed with our students in our classrooms getting them ready for their next performances. When it was their turn to shine, we sat in front of the stage prompting them. So I didn't actually get any videos of their work which is too bad.
As you can see from the first picture of Tyler the students wore costumes! It's a big enough event where the school orders outfits for each student to wear. So as part of my job that day I helped my students change a few times. At one point, they were changing out of their costumes into their jeans, I assumed they were able to put on their pants themselves. I assumed wrong. I remember Anie not even knowing which way to put her pants on! So I had a classroom of little kids undressing and dressing and I just thought it was so bizarre as you would never see that in North America!
Grace, Sally, Michael and Diana in their Summer Nights costumes
Sally being Sally
And other classroom costumes: Joseph in Sarah's class
Dane in Nate's class
Sally and Anthony in Sarah's class
William and Emily in Ben's class
My students in their "LCI News" costumes
Tyler in her graduation gown
All of the students on stage after receiving their "diplomas"
An awkward picture of my class and their Moms
At one point during the ceremony, all of us teachers went on stage and had to make a short speech. At the end of my Cheny, Sally's sister ran up on stage and gave me a bouquet. I get a few more afterwards as well. The appreciation from the Mom's here is incredible.
A photo of my class from their graduation album
Not only does the end of a school year mean students moving on, but teachers as well. The foreign teaching staff at LCI shrunk from nine teachers to six as well said goodbye to Sarah, Nate and Ben. I was so sad to see my good friend Sarah go! But excited for the new adventures she will have!
Miss this girl!!
On a side note - why is she wearing the mask?! The 'yellow dust from China' as everyone calls it has been quite bad this past month. We have been told by our supervisors to wear masks. The air quality here is quite bad. You can search a cities AQHI (air quality). If you look up Vancouver's it is usually around 3 which is green = good, whereas in Seoul for a while it was 135 which is orange = unhealthy. Today it is at 60 which is moderate. But 3 - 135 is significant!!! Not only is this bad to breathe, but it also hasn't been great for my skin.
Another tangent - My good friend Joel also left Korea to go back to Vancouver. He also kept a blog but one that more so documented the realities of living and working in Korea. You might want to check that out here: http://joelseoulsearching.tumblr.com/ More recently he has blogged about dating relationships that take place in Korea. I have been questioned by several people as to why I am not in a relationship, or why I haven't even gone on a date in the past year for that matter. While some may disagree with my thought process on this, one huge factor is the fact that we all have a clock on top of our heads, as Joel puts it. Whenever you meet someone new, you ask and are asked the same three questions - How long have you been in Korea? When does your contract end? Are you going to stay longer? We all have clocks and we are all on different timelines. It's just too complicated and too messy. He also makes some good observations as to why people stay so long in Korea known as 'the trap'. Worth the read if you are interested!
Moving on. The new year has started and I have a wonderful bunch of students! I got the class I was hoping for which was a bonus. I started off with six kinder students but now have five as one left to go to a school that has "a lot of playtime" - I don't blame her.
Roy, Jae-hun, Jaden in the back and Jenny and Isla in front
We also celebrated Jenny's birthday in the first week
Isla has such a fun and silly personality, she loves to make goofy faces
The first week of the new school year was extremely draining on every level. Honestly, I could not imagine starting this job in March when the new year starts. If I did not know the how great the last half of a year could be, I would have wanted to quit that week. It was hard to not have those feelings as it was. I don't even know how to explain why it was so hard either. But everyday I would get home from work and go to bed until I had to wake up the next morning and that was basically how we all survived that first week. Everything was last minute, we didn't have all of our books we needed, some students couldn't even speak English, there is no system in place, they don't know how to do the new books, you have new students, they aren't comfortable with you, you aren't used to them yet, there were new Korean teachers, new bus teachers, new classrooms, new students thrown in half way through a class, miscommunication, wrong paperwork, it was just absolutely chaos. Everyday.
But we are now nearing the end of the first month and things are getting smoother. I didn't realize how easy it was to come in half way through the year with foundations laid already. My students knew how to do everything and it was routine. I now have to lay those foundations for my new students. For example, they still don't really know how to copy from the board and with no access to technology things take an incredibly long time to accomplish. And while I miss my old students SO much, my love for my new students is constantly increasing.
My afternoon classes have also changed. I teach quite a few lower level classes compared to before. Here is a breakdown of my classes:
I teach two first grade classes: In one class (four of my former kinder students) I teach grammar, and language arts. In the other class I teach social studies and critical thinking.
I teach three second grade classes: In one I teach grammar and language arts. In another I teach science and critical thinking. In the last one I teach social studies - which is actually American geography.
I also teach a grade five class literature. In this class, we read a condensed version of a novel, discuss it, they act it out. I was excited for this class but they aren't very enthusiastic about it, so it's not as amazing as it could be. It probably doesn't help that we are reading Sense and Sensibility in a class of mostly boys.
One thing that has remained that same is that my prep time has stayed the same which means I still leave school early on Fridays!
And finally - my NEWS!
Some of you know this already, but for those who don't - I have extended my contract! I had been anticipating being asked to stay longer for a while so it was no surprise when I returned from my Christmas vacation and my supervisor asked me. I did not take the decision lightly, it was actually quite a hard decision for me to make and there were a lot of factors that lead me to my choice to stay. I also sought out advice from a few of you, so thank you. I have extended my contract for 7 months, which will bring me to the end of the existing school year. So instead of finishing at the end of July 2014, I will end my contract at the end of February 2015. Quite fitting as my last day will be my birthday!
I do not feel like it's the right time for me to return to Vancouver quite yet, and there is still a lot more I want to see and experience in Korea. As well, a huge factor, I had no idea what I would do back in Vancouver. Since I made my decision a few months ago, I have made a rough plan for the next year and a half which I feel confident about.
It's crazy to think that as of Monday, I have been here for 9 months. It's strange to think that I could have been going home in a few months. It's a bit scary to know I'm here until next February. But I am looking forward to all of the adventures, and all of the learning and growing I will do within the next year!
I will leave you with that - this weekend I am going to the Jindo Sea Parting Festival which I will post about next week. Spring weather has also arrived and I'm embracing the warm weather!
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